Life is not always as good as you want it to be. We all have different opinions about life and the lessons we have learned. Sometimes we are constantly conscious of what we are gaining from each new day and sometimes we are totally unaware. For me insight into certain aspects of life is important. Our relationship with our life cannot be always cultivating positive effects on us. But even then we have to take hold of the best ways to make life easier and better. The thing with wisdom, and often with life lessons in general, is that they’re learned in retrospect, long after we needed them. The good news is that other people can benefit from our experiences and the lessons we’ve learned. In my case I am sure about it, honestly.
On beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out what is our purpose of life and we want to do everything at the same time.
Slow down it’s the lesson for me and you —don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you.Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit. Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.
In this way you will catch the idea that other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside,it took lots of time in my case to understand this crazy stuff. Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values. Then for sure you will be able to get a lot of confidence for yourself. This is how I kept on learning and also kept moving.
We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to fail to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.
Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection. We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life. Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human. I believe nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love.
The life lesson that is vital to be learned, honestly is,”Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it”. Which is the real deep and hard lesson finally I think I have learned in my life.